When it comes to dating, single parents often have a tough time. It can be really difficult to plan dates around the children, especially if your ex-partner isn’t on the scene and you don’t have somebody close by to watch the kids while you head out for a date. Many single parents are also conscious that they don’t want to make the same mistakes they made in the past, and finding somebody who enjoys the same hobbies can be a great way to kick the relationship off to the best start. But it’s difficult to know how to even start with that! It’s hardly surprising that single parents are a little wary and nervous about starting dating again.
Shared hobbies
When you’ve had children with somebody, and the relationship has broken down, it’s natural to be a little cautious about meeting somebody new. Finding somebody who enjoys the same hobbies as you can be a great way to kick start the relationship.
But how do you even begin to look for somebody who shares the same hobbies as you? If you’re a single parent, then the chances are that you probably don’t get to go out to many clubs to enjoy your hobbies. But don’t let that stand in your way. These days, there are actually niche dating sites specifically set up for people who enjoy their hobbies and want to meet somebody who shares that passion. For example, if you’re a keen gamer, then you can start chatting to other gamers on sites set up just for people who are looking for dates for gamers. I think this is an amazing facility for single parents! It gives you the opportunity to narrow down your search by only chatting to people who share your interests and you don’t even need to leave the comfort of your own home!
Virtual Dating
Sticking with the gaming here, as it shows off just how great virtual dating can be, but virtual dates can be set up for pretty much any hobby you enjoy.
With gaming, it’s mostly done online anyway, so it’s really easy to come up with some fantastic virtual gamerdates online. You can decide on a game to play together depending on what you’re both interested in, and spend a few happy hours getting to know each other in the virtual world. You could also both order a takeaway to arrive at the same time too – but if you just want to game together, then that’s fine too!
If lockdown has taught me anything, it’s that staying in touch with the rest of the world is really important, particularly for single parents who really need adult interaction from time to time. The internet has given us amazing opportunities to still talk to people and even see them face to face and it just goes to show that even if you do struggle to get out of the house on your own to date, it’s still possible with the help of modern technology.
